What is the ideal penis size for women. How does penis size affect sexual satisfaction. Can a penis be too big or too small. Does penis size influence dating and relationship decisions.

The Impact of Penis Size on Women’s Sexual Satisfaction

A comprehensive study involving 1,387 sexually active women has shed new light on the age-old question: does penis size matter? The research reveals that for the vast majority of women, size does indeed play a significant role in sexual satisfaction during penile-vaginal intercourse.

Key findings include:

• 91.2% of women report that a penis can be too small for full sexual satisfaction
• 83.4% of women find some penises too large to be satisfying
• The most preferred penis size range for women is between 6-8 inches
• The average ideal penis length for women is 7.22 inches

The “Goldilocks Zone”: Ideal Penis Size Range for Women

The study identified a clear “Goldilocks zone” for penis size preferences among women. This range, spanning from 6 to 8 inches in length, appears to offer the optimal balance between being large enough for satisfaction without causing discomfort.

Why is this range considered ideal? Several factors contribute:

• Adequate stimulation of the vaginal walls and cervix
• Reduced risk of pain or discomfort during intercourse
• Psychological satisfaction without intimidation
• Versatility in sexual positions and techniques

Too Small: The Lower Limits of Sexual Satisfaction

The study revealed a strong correlation between smaller penis sizes and reduced sexual satisfaction for women. Below 7 inches in length, there is a clear negative trend in satisfaction levels.

Some notable statistics:

• Only 8.3% of women report being fully satisfied with a penis 1 inch or smaller
• 91.2% of women say a penis can be too small for full satisfaction
• Satisfaction levels increase steadily with each inch gained up to the 6-8 inch range

Why do women find very small penises less satisfying?

Several factors contribute to reduced satisfaction with smaller penises:

• Insufficient stimulation of the vaginal walls
• Difficulty reaching deeper erogenous zones
• Reduced feeling of “fullness” during intercourse
• Potential for the penis to slip out during vigorous movement

The Upper Limits: When Bigger Isn’t Better

Contrary to popular belief, the study revealed that many women find very large penises to be problematic for sexual satisfaction. In fact, there’s a negative correlation between penis sizes above 7 inches and sexual satisfaction.

Key findings on large penises:

• 83.4% of women find a 12-inch penis too big to be satisfying
• 50.8% report that a 9-inch penis is too large for full satisfaction
• 61.1% say a 10-inch penis is too big for their enjoyment

Why don’t women enjoy very large penises?

Several reasons contribute to the discomfort and reduced satisfaction with overly large penises:

• Pain during penetration and thrusting
• Cervical bruising or discomfort
• Limited depth of penetration possible
• Difficulty with certain sexual positions
• Increased risk of vaginal tearing or injury

Penis Size and Relationship Dynamics

The study also explored how penis size influences dating decisions and relationship stability. The findings suggest that size does play a role in these areas, though perhaps not as dramatically as some might expect.

• 43.6% of women say penis size matters when deciding to date someone
• 56.6% report that an overly large penis could contribute to ending a relationship
• 40.2% of women would consider cheating on a partner with a small penis

How does penis size affect casual encounters?

The importance of penis size varies depending on the nature of the sexual relationship:

• 47.4% of women say size matters during a one-night stand
• 68.5% report that size is important in a friends-with-benefits situation

These findings suggest that penis size may be more crucial in casual encounters where emotional connection is less of a factor.

The Anatomy of Satisfaction: Length vs. Girth

When it comes to penis size, both length and girth play important roles in women’s sexual satisfaction. The study found that 64.5% of women believe penis length and width are equally important for their sexual pleasure.

Why do both length and girth matter?

• Length allows for deeper penetration and cervical stimulation
• Girth provides fuller stimulation of the vaginal walls
• The combination of both can create a more intense “full” feeling
• Varied sensations from different combinations of length and girth

The Big Penis Experience: Satisfaction and Challenges

While many women report that very large penises can be problematic, the study found that a significant portion still find well-endowed partners satisfying. However, this satisfaction is not universal:

• 61.5% of women find sex with a well-endowed partner satisfying
• 81.5% cited pain as the main cause of unsatisfying big penis sex

What makes big penis sex enjoyable for some women?

For the 57.3% of women who reported satisfaction with larger penises, several factors contribute to their enjoyment:

• The feeling of being “stretched” or filled
• Intense stimulation of deep vaginal erogenous zones
• Psychological satisfaction or arousal from the size
• Potential for G-spot stimulation due to increased girth

Navigating Size Differences in Relationships

Given the importance of penis size to many women’s sexual satisfaction, how can couples navigate size differences in their relationships? Here are some strategies:

For partners with smaller penises:

• Focus on other aspects of sexual technique, such as oral sex and manual stimulation
• Experiment with positions that maximize depth and stimulation
• Consider using toys or extenders as supplements
• Emphasize emotional connection and overall intimacy

For partners with larger penises:

• Prioritize foreplay to ensure adequate arousal and lubrication
• Use plenty of lubricant to reduce friction and discomfort
• Start with shallow penetration and gradually increase depth
• Communicate openly about comfort levels and adjust accordingly

Regardless of size, open communication and a willingness to adapt are crucial for mutual satisfaction in any sexual relationship.

Beyond Size: Other Factors in Sexual Satisfaction

While this study focuses on penis size, it’s important to recognize that many other factors contribute to overall sexual satisfaction for women. These include:

• Emotional connection and intimacy
• Partner’s overall sexual skill and attentiveness
• Sexual compatibility and shared desires
• Frequency and duration of sexual encounters
• Overall relationship satisfaction
• Individual factors like stress levels and body image

Penis size is just one piece of a much larger puzzle when it comes to sexual satisfaction and relationship happiness.

The Psychology of Penis Size Preferences

The study’s findings raise interesting questions about the psychological factors that influence women’s penis size preferences. Several theories may help explain these preferences:

Evolutionary perspectives:

• Larger penises may have been associated with genetic fitness in ancestral environments
• The “Goldilocks” range could represent an optimal balance between pleasure and potential reproductive success

Cultural influences:

• Media portrayals and societal messages about ideal penis size
• Peer discussions and comparisons shaping expectations

Individual experiences:

• Past sexual encounters influencing preferences
• Physical characteristics of the individual woman (e.g., vaginal depth and sensitivity)

Understanding these psychological factors can help both individuals and couples navigate discussions and concerns about penis size more effectively.

Medical Implications of Penis Size Preferences

The study’s findings have potential implications for medical professionals working in fields related to sexual health and urology:

For urologists and plastic surgeons:

• Informing patient counseling about penis enlargement procedures
• Setting realistic expectations for outcomes of such procedures
• Addressing psychological concerns related to penis size

For sex therapists and counselors:

• Helping couples navigate size-related concerns in their relationships
• Addressing body image issues related to penis size
• Developing strategies to enhance sexual satisfaction regardless of size

For gynecologists:

• Understanding potential causes of sexual pain related to penis size
• Advising patients on strategies for comfortable intercourse with well-endowed partners

Medical professionals can use this information to provide more comprehensive and empathetic care to patients dealing with size-related concerns.

The Future of Penis Size Research

While this study provides valuable insights into women’s penis size preferences, there’s still much to learn in this field. Future research directions could include:

• Longitudinal studies examining how preferences change over time
• Cross-cultural comparisons of penis size preferences
• Investigation of how penis size preferences correlate with other physical attraction factors
• Exploration of how sexual orientation and gender identity influence size preferences
• Studies on the effectiveness of various techniques or devices marketed for penis enlargement

Continued research in this area can help dispel myths, inform medical practices, and contribute to overall sexual health and satisfaction for individuals and couples.

Embracing Diversity in Sexual Preferences

While this study reveals clear trends in women’s penis size preferences, it’s crucial to remember that individual preferences can vary widely. Some key points to consider:

• Not all women prioritize penis size in their sexual satisfaction
• Some women actively prefer smaller or larger penises outside the “Goldilocks” range
• Emotional connection and overall sexual skill often outweigh size considerations
• Open communication between partners is key to navigating any size-related concerns

Ultimately, embracing the diversity of human sexuality and focusing on mutual pleasure and connection is more important than fixating on any single physical characteristic.

Does Size Matter? 91.7% Of Women Say It Does [1,387 Woman Study]

We recently surveyed 1,387 sexually active women to answer the question:

Does size matter to women during penile-vaginal sex?

We also analyzed what women’s preferred penis size is, whether or not they’d cheat due to a partner having an inadequate penis size, and investigated what makes big penis sex enjoyable and unenjoyable.

Now it’s time to share what we discovered:

Summary Of Key Findings

1. 91.2% of women say that size matters for sexual satisfaction with certain penis sizes being too small for them.

2. Women also don’t like very large penises: 83.4% of women find some penises too big to be satisfying.

3. 6-8 inches is the most favored penis size range (“Goldilocks” range) for women.

4. 43.6% of women say penis size matters when deciding to date someone.

5. 56.6% of women say that a partner possessing a penis that is too large could contribute to them ending their relationship.

6. 40.2% of women would consider cheating on a partner with a small penis.

7. 47.4% of women report that penis size matters during a one night stand.

8. 68.5% of women report that penis size matters in a friends-with-benefits situation.

9. 64.5% of women believe that penis length & width are equally important for their sexual satisfaction.

10. Only 61.5% of women find sex with a well-endowed partner satisfying.

11. 81.5% of women cited pain as the main cause of unsatisfying big penis sex.

12. 57.3% of women who found big penis sex satisfying reported that they enjoy “the feeling of being stretched.”

13. 7.22 inches is the average ideal penis length for women.

Note: You can find our methodology section at the end of this study.

1. 91.2% Of Women Say That Size Does Matter – It Can Be Too Small

Despite an exhaustive search, we could not find any existing sexual study or research that examined the relationship between penis size and sexual satisfaction for women during penile-vaginal sex. So we conducted our own in-depth research.

We began by asking a simple question about every penis size (in 1 inch increments) from 1 inch in length up to 12 inches in length. That simple question was:

Is this penis size enough to fully sexually satisfy you during penile-vaginal sex?

There were 3 answer choices for each penis size:

1. It’s too small to fully satisfy me.
2. It’s enough to fully satisfy me.
3. It’s too big to fully satisfy me. This revealed something that is rarely talked about.

Below, you can see the percentage of women who selected each penis size as being too small:

Looking at the chart, we can see that women do not find smaller penises to be sexually satisfying. Below 7 inches, we can see a clear negative correlation between smaller penis sizes and sexual satisfaction.

In other words, the smaller the penis is, the lower the number of women that it will sexually satisfy.

Only 8. 3% of women reported that they can be fully sexually satisfied with a penis that is 1 inch or smaller in length. Interestingly, 0.5% reported that even a 1 inch penis is too big for them. This is likely due to a condition known as vaginismus.

This means that in total, 91.2% of our respondents reported that a penis can be too small to fully satisfy them. In other words, size does matter to sexual satisfaction.

The table below provides more detail on the percentage of women that find each penis size to be too small to fully sexually satisfy them

However, a penis can also be too big…

2. Women Don’t Like Big Penises: 83.4% Of Women Say A Penis Can Be Too Big To Be Satisfying

Most women do not find very large penises to be sexually satisfying.

In fact, the opposite is true. Above 7 inches in size, there is a negative correlation between larger penis sizes and sexual satisfaction for women.

This means that the larger a penis is, the fewer women there are who find it to be sexually satisfying. It becomes too big.

In fact, five out of six women (83.4%) find a 12 inch penis too big to be sexually satisfying.

This finding destroys the popular notion amongst men that bigger penises are universally preferred by women. They are clearly not:

• Over half of women (50.8%) reported that a 9 inch penis is too big to fully sexually satisfy them.
• 61.1% of women reported that a 10 inch penis is too big to fully sexually satisfy them.
• Interestingly, 4.5% of women reported that a 6 inch penis is too big for them. That’s about 1 in 22 women who require their partner to have a penis smaller than 6 inches to be fully sexually satisfied.

The table below provides more detail on the percentage of women who find each penis size to be too big to fully sexually satisfy them.

3. 6-8 Inches Is The “Goldilocks” Penis Size Range For Women

We now know that most women don’t particularly enjoy penises that are either too large or too small.

So, what is the preferred penis size range for women, that is big enough for full sexual satisfaction but not so big that it becomes uncomfortable? In other words, what is the “Goldilocks” penis size range?

Based on our survey results:

6-8 inches (15.24-20.32 cm) is the preferred or Goldilocks penis size range for women

At least three-quarters of women (77% or more) find that any penis size between 6-8 inches is big enough to fully sexually satisfy them. Penis sizes in this range will fully sexually satisfy the highest percentage of women:

• A penis size of 7 inches would sexually satisfy more women (88.3%) than any other size.
• More than half of women (60.4% or more) find any penis size between 5-8 inches is big enough to fully sexually satisfy them.

This finding reinforces our earlier findings, women find small and overly large penises to be less sexually satisfying. In general, women prefer a penis size slightly above average.

The table below provides more detail on the percentage of women that find each penis size to be too enough to fully sexually satisfy them.

What Is The Average Penis Size?

A scientific review of 10 studies was conducted in 2020 where erect penis size was measured by researchers for 1,629 participants (size was NOT self-reported) [1]. Based on these 10 studies, they found that the average erect penis length is 5.36 inches (13.61 cm)

During this same scientific review, they analyzed a further 21 studies with 13,719 participants where stretched flaccid penis length was measured by researchers (not self-reported). The average stretch flaccid penis length from these studies was found to be 5.11 inches (12.98 cm) [1].

Based on all these studies, the researchers calculated that the average erect penis is 5.1-5.5 inches (12.9-13.97 cm) in length. After taking volunteer bias into account, the researchers concluded that the average penis size is probably toward the lower end of this range [1].

4. 43.6% Of Women Say Penis Size Matters When Deciding To Date Someone

People make all sorts of compromises when deciding to date someone. Penis size and how it relates to sexual satisfaction is not the sole factor women consider when deciding to enter into a relationship

However, we hypothesized that it is a factor and investigated it with a simple question:

When deciding to enter into a relationship with a person who has a penis, does their penis size matter in any way?

As you can see in the pie chart above:

Penis size matters to 43.6% of women when deciding to date someone. However, this does not only refer to partners with a small penis, a big penis is also a negative factor for some women.

Of all the women surveyed,

• 39.7% of women reported that they are less likely to date someone with a penis that is too small.
• 13.6% of women reported that they are less likely to date someone with a penis that is too big.

Note: Some women reported both, they would be less likely to date someone who is either too small or too big.

5. 56.6% Of Women Would Consider Breaking Up With A Partner Because Their Penis Is Too Large

We also wanted to investigate if penis size mattered to women already in a relationship and whether it could be a factor for women deciding to end that relationship. First, we asked,

Would you break up with someone due to their large penis size?

When their partner has a penis that is too big::

• 43.4% of women would not end their relationship.
• 11.2% would always end their relationship.
• 45.4% reported that it could be a contributing factor to ending their relationship.

That’s a total of 56.6% of women who would consider ending their relationship due to their partner’s large penis size. Next, we asked,

Would you break up with someone due to their small penis size?

When faced with a partner’s penis that is too small:

• 34. 6% of women would not end their relationship.
• 12% would always end their relationship.
• 53.4% reported that it could be a contributing factor to ending their relationship.

That adds up to a total of 65.4% of women who would consider breaking up with a partner because their penis is too small.

From these results, we can see that penis size does matter to women when considering whether to end a relationship. However, this does not only refer to those with small penises.

A partner with a penis that is too large is also a factor that can lead to the ending of a relationship for over half of women.

6. 40.2% Of Women Would Consider Cheating On A Partner With A Small Penis

A common cultural meme is that those female partners who are not satisfied with their male partner’s penis size will inevitably cheat on them. We wanted to investigate and see whether penis size really mattered so much to women, that they would be willing to cheat.

As you can see in the results above, 10. 7% of women would definitely cheat on their partner if their penis size wasn’t big enough.

A further 29.5% of women stated that they may eventually cheat on their partner if their penis size was not large enough to satisfy them.

This adds up to a total of 40.2% of women for whom penis size matters enough that cheating is something they would consider in order to be with a partner who is big enough.

As this is a study of whether penis size matters to women, we also wanted to investigate the other end of the spectrum:

Would women cheat on a partner with a penis size that was too big for them?

5.6% of women confirmed that they would definitely cheat on a partner who had a penis that was too big.

A further 24.6% of women answered that they may eventually cheat on a partner who had a penis that was too big.

That adds up to a total of 30.2% of women for whom a partner with a big penis is so intolerable that they would consider cheating on them.

Based on these results, it’s clear that penis size does matter enough to women that they would cheat on their partners. What is interesting about the results is that this does not just apply to those lacking endowment, it also applies to those with larger penises.

7. 47.4% Of Women Report That Penis Size Matters During A One Night Stand

We hypothesized that women place a lot of emphasis on penis size during a one night stand.

For this question, we first filtered out respondents who had never experienced a one night stand, leaving only those who had.

Of those women who have experienced a one night stand, 47.4% indicated that penis size matters in bed.

Getting more specific, we discovered that for all women who have previously experienced a one night stand:

• 43.6% of women reported that a penis that is too small will be less pleasurable during a one night stand.
• 18.9% of women reported that a penis size that is too large will be less pleasurable during a one night stand.

Note: Respondents could select both “too large” and “too small”.

Yet again, this makes it clear that penis size matters to a large percentage of women.

Having a penis that is too small can be viewed negatively by women, with a penis size that is too large also being viewed negatively by roughly 1 in 5 women during a one night stand. This further lends credence to what we already discovered:

Having a penis within the Goldilocks range, neither too small nor too large is preferred by most women.

8. 68.5% Of Women Believe That Penis Size Matters In A Friends With Benefits (FWB) Situation

Staying with the topic of whether penis size matters during casual sex, we also investigated whether penis size matters during a friends with benefits (FWB) situation, where you are in an ongoing, sex-only relationship.

We asked those women who had experienced a friends with benefits situation the following question:

During an ongoing friends with benefits relationship, does your partner’s penis size matter?

As you can see penis size matters to 68. 5% of women in friends with benefits relationships.

For all women who have been in a friends with benefits relationship:

• 63.6% of women reported that a penis that is too small would be less pleasurable during a friends with benefits relationship.
• 27.4% of women stated that a penis that is too large would be less pleasurable during a friends with benefits relationship.

We can clearly see that penis size matters a lot more to a woman’s pleasure for those in friends with benefits relationships when compared to a one night stand.

9. 64.5% Of Women Believe That Penis Length & Width Are Equally Important For Sexual Satisfaction

In the course of our research, we wanted to investigate whether penis length is the only thing that matters to women for sexual satisfaction, or if penis width/girth also matters in bed.

In other words, is there a difference between a 6 inch penis that is as thin as a pencil and 6 inch penis that’s as wide as a Coke can?

Women’s views on length & width in relation to sexual satisfaction are interesting:

• 11% of women reported that penis length is more important than width.
• 24.5% of women reported that penis width is more important than length.
• 64.5% of women reported that penis length and width are equally important.

Our takeaway from this is obvious and straightforward:

Women don’t solely care about penis length. They also care about how wide or girthy their partner is, with almost two-thirds of women finding length as important as width/girth.

10. Only 61.5% Of Women Find S

ex With A Well-Endowed Partner Satisfying

We also investigated whether or not women found sex with a well-endowed partner to be satisfying or not. In other words:

Is bigger always better?

To accurately answer this question, we only included responses from women who have previously had vaginal intercourse with a partner possessing a large penis.

In total, 63.7% of sexually active women reported that they have had sex with a well-endowed partner in the past.

For this cohort of women who have had sex with a well-endowed partner in the past, the average size of their partner’s penis during their most recent big penis sexual experience was 9. 33 inches (23.7 cm).

Only 61.5% of women found their most recent sexual experience with a well-endowed partner to be satisfying.

This means that nearly two-fifths of women were left unsatisfied due to their partner’s large penis.

In other words, bigger is not always better for women with regard to penis size.

11. 81.5% Of Women Who Found Big Penis Sex Unsatisfying Cited Pain As The Main Issue

“It was painful” is the most common reason (81.5%) that women found sex with a well-endowed partner to be unsatisfying.

This intuitively makes sense, as any body part (including the vagina), that is stretched beyond its normal size can feel painful.

Length v width – When we dug into the data, we could see that 59.4% of women found their last big penis sex experience unsatisfying due to their partner’s long penis length compared to 32.9% of women who reported that their partner’s penis width was the issue.

It’s not just the size – Interestingly, many women’s issues stemming from unsatisfying vaginal sex with a larger penis were not directly related to penis size. Despite their partner having a large penis, women were dissatisfied for other reasons:

• 39.1% were dissatisfied because there was not enough foreplay.
• 27.4% were dissatisfied because their partner was a selfish lover.
• 23.5% were dissatisfied because their partner had few/no sexual skills.
• 10.6% were dissatisfied because their partner came too quickly.
• 2.9% were dissatisfied because their partner had erection issues.

Other issues included:

• He enjoyed hurting me.
• Violent
• I felt him way up in my belly and I saw blood after every encounter.
• Looked like a horse….ouch!
• I bleed from him tearing me.
• He couldn’t even get in.
• In time it would’ve been ok but I was young. Hell I love a big cock now.

12. 57.3% Of Women Who Found Big Penis Sex Satisfying Reported That They Enjoy “The Feeling Of Being Stretched”

Survey participants made it clear that the physical sensations created by their partner’s large penis were a major factor for their most recent sexual experience being sexually satisfying.

This may sound obvious, but we couldn’t find any previous research or studies confirming this, aside from anecdotes on online forums.

Of the women who found their most recent big penis sexual experience satisfying:

• 67.2% liked that their partner’s penis could hit their spots (like the G Spot).
• 63.2% of women liked the feeling of being full.
• 57.3% enjoyed the feeling of being stretched.
• 23.8% of women found it painful and liked the pain.
• 5.8% of women consider themselves size queens.

However, the physical sensations from a big penis were not the only factors that lead to survey participants enjoying their most recent sexual encounter with a well-endowed partner. We also discovered that:

• 59.7% of women found their attraction to their partner resulted in satisfying big penis sex.
• 51.8% of women found their partner’s confidence to make it satisfying.
• 51.4% reported that their partner’s foreplay skills made it satisfying.
• 56.4% of women reported that it was their partner’s other sexual skills besides penetration that made it satisfying.

Based on these results, we can clearly see that some women enjoy sex with a well-endowed partner due mainly to the physical sensations their big penis provides them. Some women even enjoy the pain it causes.

We hypothesize that this could be due to things like cervix stimulation which many women find both painful and enjoyable.

However, for the majority of women who enjoyed their most recent sexual experience with a well-endowed partner, it was far more than their large size. In other words:

Size matters, but it’s not the only factor for satisfying sex.

5.3% of participants provided additional reasons why they enjoyed their most recent sexual experience with a well-endowed partner:

• He was a freak in bed and rough I like that.
• He was sweet and careful.
• He pulled my hair and choked me. Yummy.
• I was totally in love with him and the fact he had a massive penis (at least for me it was) was as some sort of bonus. A little difficult when it came to penetration, but nevertheless satisfying; the union was stronger, at least that’s how I felt at that moment. Maybe that’s the reason why I still think of him with dearness.
• The combination of size, positions, and force he used was somewhat painful, but the overall experience was satisfying.
• His kissing skills.
• I love him.
• His moans.
• And the amount of cum he produced. Bout drowned me trying to swallow it all after a blow job.
• Some angles hurt but when he was hitting it right it was mint. Lots of lube was the key.
• Everything about him was Big: 6’4”, 210lbs, an 8 inch penis that was as wide as a soup can.
• He was kinky as.
• It took lube and foreplay to make penetration work.
• Madly in love with him, his primal ways and hunger in his eyes.

13. 7.22 Inches Is The Average Ideal Penis Length For Women

While the beginning of this sex study covered what penis sizes are too small, too big, and are just right aka the Goldilocks penis size range, we also wanted to discover what women view as the ideal penis size.

According to 1,387 female respondents, the average ideal erect penis size is 7.22 inches (18.34 cm) and the median ideal erect penis size is 7 inches (17.78 cm).

This average figure falls almost exactly in the middle of the Goldilocks range of penis sizes that we discovered earlier in our study (6-8 inches/15.24-20.32 cm).

When you contrast women’s ideal erect penis length with the actual average erect penis length for men, which is 5. 1-5.5 inches (12.9-13.97 cm) [1], we can conclusively say that women prefer penises that are about 2 inches (5.08 cm) longer than average.

You can see the the percentage of women that view each penis size as ideal in the table below.

We also surveyed women to examine their ideal penis width…

The average ideal erect penis width for women is 1.89 inches (4.8 cm). The median ideal width is 2 inches (5.08 cm).

This translates into an average ideal girth/circumference of 5.94 inches (15.09 cm).

For comparison, a standard golf ball is 1.68 inches (4.27 cm) wide, while an 8.4oz/250mll Red Bull can is 2.1 inches (5.33 cm) wide.

According to one large-scale sex study, the average erect penis girth/circumference is 4.59 inches (11.66 cm) [2]. This means that a women’s preferred erect penis girth is 1.35 inches (3.43 cm) larger than the average girth.

However, we’d caution against promoting the idea that having a 7.22 inch long or 1.89 inch wide penis is ideal for every woman. You can see from the data above that the ideal erect penis length and width is a personal preference for each individual woman.

Conclusion

We have repeatedly found that penis size matters to women in all major aspects of sex, dating and relationships. Penis size matters to women in relation to:

• Female sexual satisfaction
• Casual sexual relationships
• Entering a new relationship
• Ending a relationship
• Cheating on a partner

Most women find both small and excessively large penises to be less desirable. Instead, they find penises within the Goldilocks penis size range of 6-8 inches (15.24-20.32 cm) to be the most desirable.

The average male penis, at 5.1-5.5 inches (12.9-13.97 cm) in length [1], is enough to sexually satisfy the majority (60.4%) of women.

Methodology

We began this survey by collecting basic demographic information. Those who had never received penile-vaginal sex were disqualified, as were non-female respondents. All respondents were over the age of 18 with a mean age of 42. After this filtering process, we were left with a total of 1,387 respondents:

• 1,125 women identifying as heterosexual
• 184 women identifying as bisexual
• 13 women identifying as homosexual
• 33 women who specified alternative sexuality to heterosexual/homosexual/bisexual
• 32 women who declined to provide their sexuality

These remaining participants answered a variety of questions to assess their personal sentiments, experiences and preferences on the topic of erect penis size in relation to penile-vaginal sex.

Our survey relied on the anonymous recollections and preferences of our study participants. While they were encouraged to tell the truth and accurately represent what they had experienced, the data is nevertheless self-reported and there is the possibility of some inaccuracy.

Does SIZE Matter? AVERAGE Male Size and What Matters Most to Women

• Author: Michelle Kenway Pelvic Floor Physiotherapist

Does size matter?

What is average male penis size?

Size matters to many men but does size matter to women?

Here’s what some women say about the penis size in relation to sexual satisfaction and what really matters most during intimacy with Pelvic Floor Physiotherapist Michelle Kenway.

Does Size Matter Video Time Stamps

1:03 What is average penis size

3:31 Does size matter to women survey

4:30 Size matters comments from women

5:36 Size does not matter comments from women

Penis Size Myth

Many men are increasingly concerned about penis size. In fact, most men underestimate their penis size in relation to the average size¹.

Large penis size is equated with masculinity and sexual prowess in contemporary society. Images of large size as desirable are perpetuated in contemporary media, particularly in pornography. 

The focus on large penis size as desirable has a negative impact on self esteem in some men, creating size anxiety and problems with sexual intimacy and performance.  

The current size myth has dramatically increased demand for potentially dangerous surgical penis lengthening procedures², size enhancing creams, medications and devices.

How to Measure Penis Length

The clinical recommendations for measuring penis length³ are as follows:

• Use a flexible tape measure (non-stretch) for measuring penis length
• Press one end of the tape measure into the pubic bone at the base of the penis
• Place the tape measure along the uppermost surface of the penis
• Measure the length of the penis from the base to the tip.

Average Male Size – The BIG Size Myth

There is little to no evidence that size is related to shoe size, race or sexual orientation⁴.

Most men believe average excited length is 6 inches (15.24 cm) or greater⁵ however most studies investigating average male size have involved self reporting measures such as postal surveys of volunteers. These types of studies have contributed to the big size myth in current society.

More accurate clinical studies show average excited male length is 5.1-5.5 inches (12.95-13.97 cm). 

Survey Does Size Matter to Women

This survey was conducted in 25 hereosexual women, all of whom reported being sexually active during their lifetime. Participants included single and married women aged between 21-89 years of age. The majority of participants had undergone childbirth (N=21). Participants were volunteers and written responses were anonymous.

Survey Results

• No size does NOT matter N=21
• Undecided N=1
• Yes size matters N=3

Women overwhelmingly responsponded that penis size does not matter to their sexual satisfaction.

Survey Responses to Does Size Matter for Sexual Satisfaction

A. NO Size Does NOT Matter Responses

No its the closeness of being with that person, the lead up, the smells, sounds, touch nothing to do with the size – it’s totally irrelevant (49 years)

Totally size does not matter, it is the heart that matters, the inside bit, people need to be comfortable with their form and it can only come from within them (56 years)

No size doesn’t matter. It’s about pleasure & fun & the average woman doesn’t have a tape measure in their hip pocket (69 years)

No, large size can feel very painful, I experienced that once only and no going back (23 years)

Size doesn’t really matter more important is technique, honesty and passion (46 years)

No, I have experienced different sizes and to be honest the best involves other parts. Knowing a woman’s body is what matters because once this is understood size does not matter (39 years)

No if a guy feels confident in himself as a person regardless of size its irrelevant (36 years)

No it doesn’t matter as long as they fulfill your needs, as long as they are not selfish (21 years)

No it’s how they do other things (20 years)

No this is not one of my priorities (57 years)

No I was with one large guy once and it was so extremely painful I would never go there again (51 years)

No, as long as they cater for your needs in other ways (56 years)

If you’re big and don’t know how to use it, it’s pretty pointless. If you’re small,but know how to use it, it’s fantastic regardless of size (35 years)

Size does help but it is not everything (27 years)

Girth is more important than length but if you are really into the guy you’re with, what they do and how they make you feel during special time trumps everything (54 years)

No, I think men have a distorted sense of what an average size is, and the misconception that larger equals better, when for many women, large size is uncomfortable and painful. If that’s all that mattered, then women would just go straight for the XL battery powered devices and skip dating altogether (34 years)

B. Undecided Response

Size does matter because it’s a lot more pleasurable in a sensory way. But there’s a lot more to great intimacy than size (49 years)

C. Yes Size Matters Response

Yes size matters! Feels heaps better and more pleasurable (56 years)

Yes pleasure is directly proportional to the size (27 years)

Yes it does matter because I don’t think I will get pleasure because of society norms (22 years)

Discussion

This small survey found that the women surveyed did not think size matters in terms of their overall sexual satisfaction.  

The largest study performed investigating does size matter to women found that 84% of women were satisfied with the size of their partner and an additional 2% desired smaller partner penis size⁶. Another study of 174 women reported that only 21% regarded penis length as important⁷.

The importance of penis size to women is a subjective matter. Many different factors may relate to the importance women place upon penis size. It’s unknown whether this may be a psychological or physical phenomenon. Some women exposed to pornography may view large penis size as desirable or in fact normal. It has been suggested that in long-term relationships penis size may be less important to women than for short term intimacy.

The vagina contains stretch receptors that are partly responsible for a woman’s sensation during intimacy. In women who have larger vaginal vault size owing to natural childbirth it’s possible to speculate that larger penis size may provide greater sensation during intimacy.

There may be a range of desirable penis sizes when viewed from a physical sensation perspective. Some women report pain with large penis size and intimacy while other women report a lack of sensation with very small size.

Perhaps sexual sensation results from a combination of relative male and female personal size. This has not been scientifically investigated to date.

The survey findings are consistent with the larger scale studies. This study is limited by the small number of respondents and the findings cannot be generalized to all women.

Conclusion

This survey found that size did not matter to the women surveyed in terms of their sexual satisfaction however the survey findings are limited by the very small sample size and cannot be generalised to all women.

References

1. Mondanai N et al (2002) Penile length is normal in most men seeking penile lengthening procedures International Journal of Impotence Research 14, 283-286.

2. American Urological Society http://2. American Urological Society https://www.auanet.org/guidelines/guidelines/penile-augmentation-surgery

3. Greenstein, A., Dekalo, S. & Chen, J. Penile size in adult men—recommendations for clinical and research measurements. Int J Impot Res 32, 153–158 (2020). https://doi.org/10.1038/s41443-019-0157-4

4. King BM. Average-Size Erect Penis: Fiction, Fact, and the Need for Counseling. J Sex Marital Ther. 2021;47(1):80-89. doi: 10.1080/0092623X.2020.1787279. Epub 2020 Jul 15. PMID: 32666897.

5. Johnston, L., McLellan, T., & McKinlay, A. 2014. Perceived size really does matter: Male dissatisfaction with Penis size. Psychology of Men & Masculinities, 15, 225–228.

6. Lever, J., Frederick, D. A., & Peplau, L. A. (2006). Does size matter? Men’s and women’s views on penis size across the lifespan. Psychology of Men & Masculinities, 7, 129–143.

Does the size of the penis matter to the female orgasm?

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And in what positions is it easiest to get.

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The female orgasm is an unpredictable thing to catch, one technique is not enough: you need the right attitude, a sense of security and trust, as well as a good knowledge of anatomy: the vast majority of women are able to get an orgasm only by stimulating the clitoris. What about penis size, does it matter? The authors of a recent study claim they have finally found the answer.

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Does size matter?

A study published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine states that the longer a man’s penis, the more often his woman will have an orgasm. So, survey participants who admitted that they prefer vaginal sex noted that making love brings them more pleasure if the partner’s penis is “larger than average” (whatever that means).

However, it is important to note that size only matters if the woman in principle prefers vaginal stimulation and is able to reach orgasm without additional caresses of the clitoris. Most of the survey participants said that they prefer either a “mixed” option, in which the partner pays as much attention to clitoral stimulation as he does to movements inside the partner, or they are ready to abandon traditional sex in favor of caressing the clitoris.

( By the way: Men also have their own G-spot, the key to a special orgasm. We tell you how to find it)

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What are the ideal positions for different penis sizes?

The right position increases the likelihood of success, and for both. We tell you what to choose.

Medium

(12-18 cm)

Most likely your favorite position is the most suitable: after all, medium most often means “common”, and most of the most popular positions became such precisely because they fit most men and their ladies.

( By the way: 4 sex positions that women like much more than traditional)

Above average

(22 cm or more) expanded from excitement, and also became sufficiently hydrated. By the way, just in case, keep a bottle of lubricant on hand – most likely, it will come in handy.

Prefer female-on-top positions to make it easier for your partner to control the depth of penetration.

( By the way: 3 classic sex positions you can make more fun)

Smaller than usual

(11 cm or less)

If your penis is 12 cm or less, choose positions “m man behind” They provide deeper penetration. It is also good if, immediately after penetration, the woman squeezes the gluteal muscles – this will make the contact tighter, and the pleasure for both will be sharper.

Women imagine ideal penises differently than men

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Vladimir LAGOVSKY

May 5, 2016 17:25

Scientists have determined: the fair sex is almost a centimeter more modest in their dreams 900 03

Some women lack just a little.

Size – medium, the most popular

Another study on the topic “Whose penis is better?” carried out by British scientists. This time, the experts of the DrEd Internet portal – Your Online Doctor, as they call it, showed concern. The answer to the question was sought by interviewing citizens of several countries – both men and women. And then, therefore, they could compare claims – according to gender and geographical characteristics.

Several thousand volunteers took part in the surveys. “What do you think is the average penis length?” they were asked. “And what, in your opinion, is ideal?” – inquired further.

As a result, it turned out: men believe that the length of the average penis is 14.1 centimeters. According to the subjective opinion of women, the average penis is shorter by 3 millimeters.

Men and women have different ideas about what is essential.

The ideal length, in the view of men, is an average of 16.6 centimeters. Women are ready to be content with the ideal of 15.8 centimeters. That is, the average desires of mankind are quite modest – especially among the fair sex, who are usually suspected of the opposite. Although they vary by country. In Austria, for example, they dream of 17. 6 centimeters, considering such a length to be ideal, and in the UK they agree on a 14.2-centimeter ideal.

Different countries have different ideals.

Would be a good person

A few years ago, the predecessors of the current “measuring” made the world’s largest attempt to assess how people still relate to what the stronger sex received from nature. To do this, Dr. Kevin Wylie of the Royal Halamshire Hospital in Sheffield and Ian Eardley of St. James’s Hospital in Leeds summarized and analyzed more than 50 international studies related to the size of the man’s dignity, starting from 1942 years. And with numbers in their hands, they are now convincing their brothers: for women, these sizes are “light on the head.” With a few exceptions, of course. It is mainly the men who are concerned.

Only 55 percent of men find their “wealth” large enough. While 85 percent of women say they are satisfied with the parameters of their partners.

– “Linear” size was generally in last place, – said Kevin Wylie. – When choosing between length and diameter, 90 percent of women prefer the latter. And the same number say that first of all they value in men a well-groomed appearance, well-being and spiritual warmth.

As for the stronger sex, the results obtained by the DrEd portal are not much different from the previous ones – apparently, they correspond to reality. 14 percent of the men surveyed are very satisfied with the existing length, 44.5 percent are simply satisfied, and together they are the same 55 percent. Even a little more.

But the fair sex, perhaps, demonstrated the difference. Indifference to the size of manhood was reported by 21.4 percent of women. The majority – 67.4 percent – reported that size is important, but not too much. And only for 11.2 percent of the women surveyed it is of decisive importance. Don’t agree to anything less.

The majority of women do not complain about fate – they say that they are quite satisfied with their “tits” in their hands.

Although, if you add up women who don’t care much about penis size with those who don’t care at all (67.4 + 21.4), you get 88.8 percent, a figure that’s not much different from Wylie and Eardley’s. That is, from the share of the fair sex, who have the penises of their partners at the very time.

It’s interesting, but if a man is very proud of his “wealth” – on average, such 14 percent, then with age – starting from 45 years old, his enthusiasm diminishes. There are fewer people who are disappointed with their size. Apparently, over the years, those deprived, as it seemed to them, begin to look at life more philosophically. The same goes for what comes from nature.

But men who are simply pleased with themselves are more and more pleased with their genitals. And by the age of 45 they are completely delighted.

Beauty is hard to hide, one wants to bring it to the masses.

At different ages, men hold different views on their “restless household”.

HOW WE ARE

Small, but remote

The study of the Internet portal DrEd bypassed the Russians. Therefore, their ideals remained unclear. But about the real size something is known. In 2012, they were recognized from somewhere and published by Richard Lynn from the University of Ulster in Northern Ireland (University of Ulster, Northen Ireland, United Kingdom) in the scientific journal Personality and Individual Differences.

It follows from Linn’s article that the average length of a Russian man’s dignity is 13.3 centimeters (Calm down, comrades! Personally, you may not have measured it). Alas, this is half a centimeter less than European women imagine – according to British scientists.

We have no reason to be proud, but there is nothing to be ashamed of either.

On the other hand, a few years ago members of the French National Academy of Surgery clarified what length penises should be considered normal. It is normal, in their opinion, when the length starts from 12.8 centimeters.

More information about the summary table of penis lengths in different countries can be found here.