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Why am i such a heavy sleeper: What Makes Someone a Light or Heavy Sleeper?

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What Makes Someone a Light or Heavy Sleeper?

For some people, the slightest noise awakens them at night. For others, the wailing siren of a passing fire truck doesn’t disturb their slumber. Just why, though, remains a bit of a mystery.

Although many people are self-proclaimed light sleepers or heavy sleepers, researchers have found that little is actually known about why people react differently to noises and other stimuli during sleep.

Genetics, lifestyle choices, and undiagnosed sleep disorders may all play a role. In addition, some studies suggest that differences in brain wave activity during sleep may also make someone a light or heavy sleeper.

But whichever category you’re in, one thing is certain: The quantity and quality of the sleep you get both play an important role in your health.

Everyone Should Cycle Through Light and Deep Sleep Each Night

During sleep, you alternate between cycles of REM (rapid eye movement) and NREM (non–rapid eye movement) that repeat about every 90 minutes. NREM sleep consists of three stages, the first being the lightest stage, during which you’re most likely to be woken up, according to the National Institutes of Health.

Stage one, or the phase between being awake and asleep, is considered light sleep. Deeper sleep begins in stage two, as your breathing and heart rate become slower and your body temperature drops.

Stage three is the deepest and most restorative stage of sleep (it’s also called “slow-wave sleep”), in which breathing further slows, muscles relax, and tissue growth and repair occurs.

Next is REM sleep, which is characterized by your eyes moving rapidly from side to side, as well as brain activity, heart rate, and blood pressure that actually look more similar to being awake than asleep, according to the Sleep Foundation. This is the stage of sleep when the most dreaming occurs, as well as important parts of the memory consolidation process.

In general, as people age, they spend less time in the slow-wave and REM stages of sleep and more time in the lighter stages, according to a review article published in March 2018 in Sleep Medicine Clinics.

But it’s also important to note that how much time someone spends in light or deep sleep over the course of a night can vary significantly from person to person and night to night. Also, the amount of deep sleep someone gets isn’t necessarily correlated to the amount of total sleep they get. Someone who gets eight hours of sleep a night, for instance, may not experience as much slow-wave, deep sleep as someone else who gets just six hours a night.

“There may be some overlap between what people subjectively feel about the depth of their sleep and what we find in the lab when measuring the different sleep stages,” says David Neubauer, MD, an associate professor of psychiatry and behavioral sciences at the Johns Hopkins University School of Medicine and associate director of the Johns Hopkins Sleep Disorders Center in Baltimore. “But it’s not necessarily the same thing.”

So, What Does Make Someone a Restless Sleeper?

Previous research suggests that differences in how sleeping people respond to noise may be related to levels of brain activity called sleep spindles. The researchers found that people whose brains produced the most of these high-frequency sleep spindles were more likely to sleep through loud noises. But more research is needed to confirm the results.

If someone is not feeling rested and thinks it’s because they are sleeping lightly, they should look at the factors that might be contributing to their inability to achieve a deep sleep, says Dr. Neubauer. Things like drinking alcohol too close to bedtime or in large quantities can disrupt healthy and consistent sleep cycles, as can keeping an inconsistent sleep schedule, according to the Sleep Foundation. A doctor can recommend a sleep study in a sleep lab or an at-home sleep test to see if a sleep disorder could be to blame, Neubauer says.

Some sleep disorders, such as obstructive sleep apnea, may contribute to light sleep by causing awakenings throughout the night, due to breathing irregularities.

But it’s worth noting that just because you feel like you’re a light sleeper or that you awaken easily during the night due to outside noise or other disturbances doesn’t mean that you’re not actually getting the sleep you need. What’s more important is that you wake up feeling rested, which is a good indication that you’re getting the deep sleep you need, says Eric Landsness, MD, PhD, an assistant professor of neurology and sleep medicine at Washington University School of Medicine in St. Louis.

Neubauer adds that it’s hard to generalize about what makes some people light sleepers and others heavy sleepers. “It might be some sort of genetics, or it might be that some people have a greater degree of arousal over a 24-hour cycle,” he says.

In most cases, factors under your own control affect the quality of sleep you get. “There are lots of issues related to lifestyle, medications, alcohol, and caffeine that can lighten sleep,” Neubauer says. “People might also not be getting enough sleep because they’re not spending enough time in bed due to the choices they make.”

How to Get More Deep Sleep Whether You’re a Light or Heavy Sleeper

If you feel groggy during the day or find yourself falling asleep — or if you feel irritable, experience memory problems, or have a decrease in your attention span — you might not be getting enough sleep, or more specifically, enough quality sleep. To get to the root of the problem, try these remedies to help reset your sleep schedule, or talk to your doctor or consult a sleep expert if these tactics are still not helping.

To improve the quality of your sleep, the following may help:

  • Have a set bedtime and a set wake time. Also, try to avoid staying up late and sleeping in on weekends, says Rajkumar Dasgupta, MD, assistant professor of clinical medicine at the University of Southern California’s Keck School of Medicine in Los Angeles and a spokesperson for the American Academy of Sleep Medicine. Staying up on weekends makes it difficult to go to sleep early on Sunday night, which then leads to fatigue the next day.
  • Manage stress all day long. Higher levels of stress are associated with sleeping less, according to the American Psychological Association. And research suggests that there may be an underlying biological explanation as to why stress is more likely to disturb some people’s sleep, according to a review published in December 2018 in the Journal of Sleep Research.
  • Avoid alcohol close to bedtime. It may do a good job of knocking you out in the short term, but it interferes with deep sleep, says Dr. Dasgupta. That’s because drinking before bedtime may cause disruptions to your sleep cycle as your liver enzymes metabolize alcohol, according to the Sleep Foundation.
  • Turn off the TV and keep electronic devices away from the bedroom. “Keep your cell phone out of the room, so a text won’t wake you up, especially if you’re a light sleeper,” Dr. Landsness says.
  • Avoid screen time at least 30 minutes before bedtime. Unplugging an hour or more before your head hits the pillow is even better. The light from screens messes with sleep by discouraging the body from releasing melatonin, which is the hormone that signals to the body that it’s time to fall asleep. And engaging with tech devices, even if just to answer a couple of emails or watch a TV show, is more energizing than relaxing, and it leads to cognitive arousal.
  • Wear an eye mask. This will block light that may be seeping into the room from the edges of your curtains. “Light sleepers are prone to light contamination. That tiny bit of light emanating from the streetlight outside could affect your sleep,” Landsness says. Studies suggest that wearing an eye mask can help people sustain longer periods of REM sleep, and that it encourages elevated levels of melatonin.
  • Use earplugs or noise-canceling earbuds. This will help drown out ambient noise, especially if your bedroom is facing a window that picks up traffic sounds from outside, Landsness says. You can also try a fan or a white-noise machine that can play soothing sounds to help you fall asleep. A study published in December 2017 in Frontiers in Neurology found that the gentle hum of these kinds of devices can help some people fall asleep faster.
  • Watch what you eat close to bedtime. Try to avoid snacks packed with sugar, which could cause a sugar spike. Also avoid caffeine and nicotine, both of which are stimulants. And spicy, acidic foods may cause heartburn or acid reflux that can interfere with sleep, according to the Sleep Foundation.

Additional reporting by Katherine Lee and Carmen Chai.

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If you never wake up to the sound of a fire truck or ambulance, and not even a bang could disturb your slumber, you may be a heavy sleeper.  Indeed, heavy sleepers have difficulty waking up and may feel sleepy throughout the day, even when they are getting enough sleep. But what makes a heavy sleeper and what is the best way to wake them up? If you are one or live with one, it is beneficial to understand what keeps them from waking up refreshed, rested and on time, and to find out what you can do about it.

In this article, we cover:

  • Why am I such a heavy sleeper?
    • Do heavy sleepers snore more?
    • Do heavy sleepers sleep more?
  • How to stop being a heavy sleeper
    • Can a heavy sleeper become a light sleeper?
  • How to wake up a heavy sleeper

Why am I such a heavy sleeper?

Many people may wonder why they are such heavy sleepers. Although science hasn’t yet figured out why some people have a higher arousal threshold than others – a term that describes how much stimulus you need to wake up – research suggests that heavy sleepers may produce more sleep spindles than light sleepers.  These sleep spindles correspond to a form of brain activity that occurs during deep sleep and makes a person more tolerant of noises. Therefore, it could be easier to wake up a heavy sleeper if they’re in light sleep stages, but more challenging if they are in deep sleep.  

However, some other factors can also contribute to this condition: 

  • Genetics: Studies have shown that certain genes can make a person more likely to be a heavy or light sleeper. If you have a family member who is a heavy sleeper, you may be one as well.
  • Sleeping disorders: Certain sleeping disorders, such as sleep apnea, can cause a person to be a heavy sleeper. Sleep apnea is a condition where a person’s breathing is interrupted during sleep, causing them to wake up briefly and disrupt their sleep.
  • Lifestyle habits and medication: Habits such as drinking alcohol, using sedatives, or taking certain medications can cause a person to be a heavy sleeper. Alcohol and sedatives can cause a person to fall asleep faster, but they also disrupt sleep quality, making it harder to wake up in the morning.
  • Lack of physical activity: People who are not physically active during the day tend to be heavy sleepers. Regular physical activity can help improve sleep quality, making it easier to wake up in the morning.
  • Sleep deprivation: People who don’t get enough sleep or have irregular sleep patterns are more likely to be heavy sleepers. This is because their body is not getting the right amount of sleep it needs to function properly, making them more likely to feel groggy and disoriented upon waking.

It’s important to note that there may be other underlying medical conditions that can also contribute to being a heavy sleeper, and consulting a specialist is the first step in identifying them. 

Is heavy sleeping bad, then?

Whether or not heavy sleeping is considered bad or a disadvantage depends on the individual and their specific situation. For some people, being a heavy sleeper may not cause any significant problems. However, for others, it can lead to issues such as difficulty getting to work or school on time, missing important appointments or events, and even being in danger if they sleep through important alarms or warnings.

Additionally, heavy sleepers are at an increased risk of suffering from sleep inertia, as they are thought to spend more time in deep and REM sleep and tend to wake up during these. They may feel groggy, disoriented and fatigued throughout the day. This can impact their work and social life along with causing issues for relatives and friends.  Regardless of the cause, if the condition affects their overall health and life quality, it is important to address and treat it as soon as possible to prevent further consequences. It is also worth mentioning that heavy sleeping can be a symptom of other health conditions such as depression, hypothyroidism, and more.

Does snoring mean deep sleep? Do heavy sleepers snore more?

Snoring is not necessarily more common in heavy sleepers. Not all heavy sleepers snore, and not all snorers are heavy sleepers. Snoring can occur during any stage of sleep and it can be a symptom of a sleep disorder, obesity, alcohol consumption, certain medications, or nasal congestion.  

Do deep sleepers sleep more?

Heavy sleepers don’t necessarily sleep more than others, but as mentioned, they may have a harder time waking up and staying awake, even after getting enough sleep. Heavy sleepers may require more time to fully become alert, even after getting the same amount of sleep as someone who is not a heavy sleeper.

How to stop being a heavy sleeper

How you can stop being a heavy sleeper will depend on what is really causing the condition. As previously mentioned, improving sleep habits and addressing any underlying sleep disorders can, generally speaking, help improve your sleep quality and reduce the effects of being a deep sleeper. Some ways to do this include:

  • Establish a regular sleep schedule: Going to bed and waking up at the same time every day, even on weekends, can help regulate the body’s sleep-wake cycle and improve sleep quality. In the Sleep Cycle app, you can use the “Sleep Goal” feature to help you get that necessary regular sleep.
  • Create a comfortable sleep environment: Having a cool, dark, and quiet room can help improve the chances of falling asleep and staying asleep.
  • Develop a bedtime routine: Engaging in activities such as reading, listening to calming music, or taking a warm bath before bedtime can help prepare the body for sleep.
  • Avoid caffeine, nicotine, and alcohol before bedtime: These substances can disrupt sleep and make it harder to fall asleep and stay asleep.
  • Practice relaxation techniques: Techniques such as deep breathing, meditation, or yoga can help reduce stress and anxiety, which can contribute to better sleep.
  • Power nap if you feel tired: naps during the day can help a heavy sleeper stay alert and get the necessary energy to face the day. But remember that naps longer than 20-30 minutes can make it harder to wake up later on. 
  • Exercise and get some sunlight: both improve sleep quality and reinforce the natural circadian rhythm.  
  • Consulting a sleep specialist: A sleep specialist can help identify and address what may be contributing to heavy sleeping.

Can a heavy sleeper become a light sleeper?

The possibility that a heavy sleeper becomes a light sleeper will depend on the cause and other factors. Being a light sleeper isn’t better than being a heavy sleeper and vice versa. Both are different conditions that need to be addressed if they affect your sleep quality, life quality and overall health. 

Although this also depends on the reason why someone is a heavy sleeper, there could be several factors that could contribute to a lower arousal threshold, such as changes in environment or lifestyle, stress, and certain medical conditions. For example, moving to a new location, or starting a new job with different hours can disrupt the body’s internal clock and make it more difficult to fall asleep and stay asleep throughout the night.  Certain medical conditions, such as stress or anxiety can cause changes in sleep patterns. Certain medications can also cause fragmented or restless sleep. 

Moreover, age can also play a role in how much we sleep or the quality of sleep. As we age, our sleep patterns may change and we may become lighter sleepers.

How to wake up a heavy sleeper

Waking up a heavy sleeper or starting your day on time, refreshed and rested if you are one of them can be challenging. But there are several strategies that can help (and no, it’s not directly splashing cold, ice water on them or using a loud, persistent alarm clock):

  • Use a smart alarm clock: Yes, a foreseeable drawback for heavy sleepers is sleeping through an alarm. However, a smart alarm clock like the one in the Sleep Cycle app ensures that you wake up in your lightest sleep phase, making it easier and avoiding the sleep inertia that characterizes heavy sleepers.
  • Place your phone under the bed: the Sleep Cycle app can track your sleep even if you place your phone under the bed. This way, it would be more challenging for you to snooze or stop the alarm and will help you be more wakeful. 
  • Take advantage of natural light: opening the curtains or blinds to let natural light into the room can help signal to the body that it’s time to wake up, suppressing melatonin levels and increasing serotonin, a hormone that also helps you feel alert and awake. If it’s still really dark when you need to wake up,  you can get smart light bulbs that will slowly get brighter according to the time you set.
  • Find a scent that stimulates you: the smell of coffee, breakfast, or the perfume that your partner or yourself wear in the morning can help stimulate the heavy sleeper and get them out of bed. 
  • Establish a morning routine: morning routines are as important as bedtime routines, and can also help you reset your circadian rhythm, improve your focus, mood and energy. For example, by including a small breakfast or an activity to look forward to early in the morning, your body will “ask” or crave that and wake you up naturally.  

It’s important to note that what works for one person may not work for another, so it may take some experimentation to find the best individual strategy. 

Understanding heavy sleeping

Understanding what it really means to be a heavy sleeper and knowing the causes is essential in order to address any potential issues and improve overall health, wellbeing and sleep quality. Heavy sleeping is, in general, not dangerous for your overall health but it can become frustrating if that affects daily activities or life in general. It’s important to note that while some people may naturally sleep more, excessive sleepiness during the day may be a sign of an underlying sleep disorder, such as sleep apnea. Consulting a healthcare provider can help to identify the underlying cause and develop a treatment plan.

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If I sleep, nothing will wake me up. I’m in college and my parents keep waking me up to study. I don’t hear the alarm at all, at least set 15 alarms, every time the same thing. I don’t translate them, I just don’t hear them.
It often happens that I wake up, I open my eyes, take a sitting position, talk, then lie down again and fall asleep. Then, upon full awakening, after 3-4 hours, I don’t remember at all that they woke me up, and I talked, I will find out later from my parents.

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The fact that you do not hear the alarm clock means that by the time it sounds, your body has not yet rested and is not ready to wake up. Perhaps you go to bed too late or experience increased physical activity. What can you recommend?

  1. Go to bed earlier so that you get enough sleep at the right time, and not 3-4 hours late
  2. Keep a sleep schedule. Going to bed and getting up should be the same every day, then your body will “remember” this, and you can wake up at the right time even without an alarm clock
  3. Do not use gadgets with a glowing screen 2 hours before bedtime
  4. Give up bad habits , cigarettes, various stimulants, salts) if available
  5. Start the morning with light exercise to wake up faster and stay awake
  6. If you sleep more than 9 hours, have difficulty waking up in the morning and are sleepy during the day, see a sleep specialist for an examination.

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be glad that you have a good sleep, it may happen that you cannot fall asleep even with sleeping pills.
keep this state for life.
wish you good health!

I sleep very soundly and don’t hear the alarm clock. Suggest something!

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Pfff the same thing. Never thought it was a problem, what the heck? This is called sound deep sleep the most healthy and beneficial. And those who wake up from the shshroh of a mouse in the next quarter, in fact, do not sleep and become twitchy hysterics with age. The way out for me is two alarm clocks plus my mother calls the phone until I wake up, but this is earlier. Now the husband wakes up and how convenient – when he has already prepared breakfast. 9Guest

Pfff the same thing. Never thought it was a problem, what the heck? This is called sound deep sleep the most healthy and beneficial. And those who wake up from the shshroh of a mouse in the next quarter, in fact, do not sleep and become twitchy hysterics with age. The way out for me is two alarm clocks plus my mother calls the phone until I wake up, but this is earlier. Now the husband wakes up and how convenient – when he has already prepared breakfast.

I think it’s good to have such a dream in retirement, but when in the prime of life it’s a pity to spend so much time sleeping. 06 Go to bed early, really early! Hours at 19-20 pm. Yes, strange, but it will be easier to get up in the morning. As an option, get a cat) This creature wants to eat in the morning and will raise the dead (just starting to eat it)) Well, a lot of alarm clocks for the first time.

As for going to bed early – this is an option, you can use it before some important event, so as not to miss the train, for example.

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You need to have 2-3 different alarm clocks. You can set the TV to turn on at the right time. You can’t even imagine how I dream of sound sleep. I seem to be sleeping, sleeping, dreaming, and if my son says something in a dream, I’m already waking up. I wake up 5 times a night.

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Author, how can you sleep so soundly??? you apparently have an impenetrable nervous system, because if a person is worried, for example, he would not oversleep and is not really afraid to sleep

I am melancholic by nature (though not 100%), they seem to have a weak nervous system, besides, I I take everything to heart, I am prone to depression, mood swings. Logically, you should sleep sensitively, but here it is not.

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In general, this is probably still connected with willpower – I sometimes hear an alarm clock, but somehow I don’t realize that it is it, and turn it off. Or just wait through a dream until he passes out himself. After that, I fall into a slow sleep and sleep for 1.5 hours, then 20 minutes of REM sleep – at this time, some random sound can wake me up. If it does not wake up, then again 1.5 hours of slow sleep.

In general, a madhouse, I need to get a job, maybe at least my daily routine will change something for me.

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Guest

And I envy you – you probably never wake up. And you manage to do a lot of things, since you sleep little. it’s only to envy you how well you are recovering, sleep really well. But people like us do not really sleep, broken, howling, irritated

what is there to envy? it’s only to envy you how well you are recovering, sleep really well. But people like us don’t sleep properly, broken, howling, irritated

And if you take sleeping pills, a hot bath or soothing tea? Can any of this help?

Marusya

Guest I envy you – you probably never wake up. And you manage to do a lot of things, since you sleep little. [/qu what is there to envy here? it’s only to envy you how well you are recovering, sleep really well. But people like us do not really sleep, broken, howling, irritated

And if you take a sleeping pill, a hot bath or soothing tea? Can any of this help?

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you are right. After the birth of my child, I began to sleep extremely sensitively. Over time, I forgot how to sleep and could not sleep for 4-5 days, ALL the rustles interfered with me … I really look forward to those who sleep like crack I sleep in earplugs and my family walks on tiptoe, but still I still go and I hardly sleep. neurologists, psychologists cannot solve my problem. all sorts of classes, massages tablo sea and the result is ZERO …. I am a hysterical, neurosthenic and the further, the worse. But damn it, I always hear all the alarms, because I often don’t sleep at this time. It gets to the point that for months I can sleep no more than 2 hours a day and quietly go crazy. maybe that’s why I got very seriously ill, because sleep is the most important thing

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MarusyaGuest And I envy you – you probably never wake up. And you manage to do a lot of things, since you sleep little. [/qu what is there to envy here? it’s only to envy you how well you are recovering, sleep really well. But people like us don’t sleep properly, broken, howling, irritated

And if you take sleeping pills, a hot bath or soothing tea? Can any of this help?
MarusyaGuestI envy you – you probably never wake up. And you manage to do a lot of things, since you sleep little. [/qu what is there to envy here? it’s only to envy you how well you are recovering, sleep really well. But people like us don’t sleep properly, broken, howling, irritated

And if you take sleeping pills, a hot bath or soothing tea? Can any of this help?
from sleeping pills in the morning, worse than not sleeping at all, well, I turn off for a maximum of 3 hours, and then at least the devil’s head, such a wild pain . … every day I almost don’t sleep for more than 8 !!! years ((((and I would like to sleep like you, but alas, I don’t know how. I’m also depressed, melancholic and everything that you described, so if I get a little nervous, I can’t go to bed. and yes, I can’t be sane to say, but I have to fulfill all the duties and it’s like I’m quietly going crazy. Vangny massages are useless. Richina is somewhere else0003

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And get a dog? They lick their faces in the morning… How can you not wake up?
Another MCH helps or husband. Well, either mom or who you live with.
My friends gave their dog water to drink at night, so that she would want to go to the toilet a little earlier, and now she was stably waking them up. And before that, they put an alarm clock in a saucepan (for resonance) and all that, it didn’t help

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Volzhanka

I also sleep soundly and can’t hear anything. To my shame, even the birth of a child did not prevent me from sleeping soundly, I didn’t hear the baby’s cry at all at night, and my husband heard and woke me up, and shook me like a pear for at least a minute, then spat and always got up to the child himself. I slept well, and he had to go to work in the morning. Yes, as I remember how my mother shamed me that I do not have a maternal instinct. But it is impossible to change this, and over time, everyone “understood and forgave” me. It’s been 18 years now, the kids have grown up.
Now my daughter is also sleeping soundly and I understand her, BUT ! now my husband wakes us up in the morning, the two of us, how patience does not burst, golden man.

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Marusya

How do you wake up? Do you have any methods other than the ones I listed?

It seems to me that it is good to have such a dream in retirement, but when in the prime of life it is a pity to spend so much time sleeping. .

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In general, this is probably still connected with willpower – I sometimes hear an alarm clock, but somehow I don’t realize that it is him, and turn it off . Or just wait through a dream until he passes out himself. After that, I fall into a slow sleep and sleep for 1.5 hours, then 20 minutes of REM sleep – at this time, some random sound can wake me up. If it does not wake up, then again 1.5 hours of slow sleep.

In general, a madhouse, I need to get a job, maybe at least the daily routine will change something for me. I don’t hear anything at all in my sleep, so for me the problem is

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Guest

Pfft same thing. Never thought it was a problem, what the heck? This is called sound deep sleep the most healthy and beneficial. And those who wake up from the shshroh of a mouse in the next quarter, in fact, do not sleep and become twitchy hysterics with age. The way out for me is two alarm clocks plus my mother calls the phone until I wake up, but this is earlier. Now the husband wakes up and how convenient – when he has already prepared breakfast.

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from sleeping pills in the morning, worse than not sleeping at all, well, I turn off for a maximum of 3 hours, and then at least the devil’s head, such a wild pain . … here I have been sleeping almost every day for more than 8 years! years ((((and I would like to sleep like you, but alas, I don’t know how. I’m also depressed, melancholic and everything that you described, so if I get a little nervous, I can’t go to bed. and yes, I can’t be sane to say, but I have to fulfill all the duties and it’s like I’m quietly going crazy. Vangny massages are useless. Richina is somewhere elseMar wuxia

And don’t say it’s terrible! When there were, for example, some exams before, I, of course, was afraid to oversleep – I woke up 10 times a night, I dreamed that the exam had already begun, they were looking for me, etc. And at the moment when I had to get up, I seemed to fall somewhere and not hear ANYTHING. I overslept once, the exam was at 9, and I woke up at 12! I ran to the university in 15 minutes, even managed to pass. The problem is that before trips you can still stay awake, but before exams, important meetings, it’s impossible not to sleep at all – you become completely insane.

I am melancholic by nature (although not 100%), they seem to have a weak nervous system, besides, I take everything to heart, I am prone to depression, mood swings. Logically, you should sleep sensitively, but here it is not.

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    Mar wuxia

    good morning everyone,
    my problem is that i sleep VERY soundly . I don’t hear any sounds and I don’t feel anything (sun in my face, light, people who wake me up). This is terribly inconvenient, it is impossible to plan anything important for the morning. I invent incredible things in order to wake up: sleep sitting (so I sleep less soundly), stick a loud phone to my ears or hands with tape, an alarm clock for the deaf (with strong vibration), etc. It doesn’t always help. Previously, it helped to put music on the timer. center – if you move the speakers to your ears – but of course, it interfered with others. At 100%, not oversleeping helps only not to go to bed at all, but naturally I feel terrible in the morning. In general, in any case, it’s insanely hard to get up in the morning, I’m a 100% owl.
    My father is the same, but he never really cared. I thought it might be due to low blood pressure. Well, I also have depression now, although when I didn’t have it, everything was the same. I don’t work now, but when I worked, everything was the same.
    I have already read everything you can about sleep. About slow and fast sleep – now I know that I need to sleep at a time multiple of 1.5. By the way, sometimes it helps, but I can’t hope for that alone. I went to the otolaryngologist, checked the hearing on special devices – the hearing is 100%. The therapist didn’t take my problem seriously.
    I’ve always wondered how people can wake up just from the vibration on the phone – it’s a mystery to me .. I read a bunch of forums – the main advice is to set the alarm clock away, like this will make you get up and turn it off)) Doesn’t suit me, because. I can’t even hear it in my ear.
    I understand that it will be funny to someone, but this is a real problem, and I want to solve it.
    Who else has experienced this? Is it possible to somehow cure it or do something about it?

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    I have several alarm clocks with different melodies on my phone. .. it doesn’t help , I’m not listening … I’m desperate … I need to get up on time in the morning, there is no one to wake me up 🙁

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    Marusya

    Good morning everyone,
    my problem is that I sleep VERY soundly. I don’t hear any sounds and I don’t feel anything (sun in my face, light, people who wake me up). This is terribly inconvenient, it is impossible to plan anything important for the morning. I invent incredible things in order to wake up: sleep sitting (so I sleep less soundly), stick a loud phone to my ears or hands with tape, an alarm clock for the deaf (with strong vibration), etc. It doesn’t always help. Previously, it helped to put music on the timer. center – if you move the speakers to your ears – but of course, it interfered with others. At 100%, not oversleeping helps only not to go to bed at all, but naturally I feel terrible in the morning. In general, in any case, it’s insanely hard to get up in the morning, I’m a 100% owl.
    My father is the same, but he never really cared. I thought it might be due to low blood pressure. Well, I also have depression now, although when I didn’t have it, everything was the same. I don’t work now, but when I worked, everything was the same.
    I have already read everything you can about sleep. About slow and fast sleep – now I know that I need to sleep at a time multiple of 1.5. By the way, sometimes it helps, but I can’t hope for that alone. I went to the otolaryngologist, checked the hearing on special devices – the hearing is 100%. The therapist didn’t take my problem seriously.
    I’ve always wondered how people can wake up just from the vibration on the phone – it’s a mystery to me .. I read a bunch of forums – the main advice is to set the alarm clock away, like this will make you get up and turn it off)) Doesn’t suit me, because. I can’t even hear it in my ear.
    I understand that it will be funny to someone, but this is a real problem, and I want to solve it.
    Who else has experienced this? Is it possible to somehow cure it or do something about it?

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    Marusya

    Good morning everyone,
    my problem is that I I sleep VERY soundly. I don’t hear any sounds and I don’t feel anything (sun in my face, light, people who wake me up). This is terribly inconvenient, it is impossible to plan anything important for the morning. I invent incredible things in order to wake up: sleep sitting (so I sleep less soundly), stick a loud phone to my ears or hands with tape, an alarm clock for the deaf (with strong vibration), etc. It doesn’t always help. Previously, it helped to put music on the timer. center – if you move the speakers to your ears – but of course, it interfered with others. At 100%, not oversleeping helps only not to go to bed at all, but naturally I feel terrible in the morning.